Cremation Service Questions and Their Answers

By: Schilling Funeral Home & Cremation
Monday, October 12, 2020

Many people have lots of questions about cremations, funerals and other related topics. Maybe you’ve looked at your wardrobe before going to a memorial and wondered what in the heck you’re supposed to wear. Or, perhaps you’ve been to a memorial after a cremation service in Amboy, IL and wondered who that person in the dark suit was.  

 

Luckily, this list of common cremation service-related questions and their answers can hopefully help shed some light on your queries:  

  • What do Funeral Directors Do? – Funeral directors are, first and foremost, in charge of preparing a body for burial or cremation, but they also help with a ton of other things from arranging memorials and funerals to providing transportation to and from the place of disposition.   
  • Should I Send a Sympathy Card? – Sending a card is just one of the many ways you can show support for the bereaved. If you do send a card, send it within two weeks of the death. If you don’t want to send a card, you can reach out in another way like a phone call, email or visit.  
  • Should Kids Come to the Service? - The memorialization process is very important for mourning and dealing with grief in a healthy and constructive way. This is true for kids just as it is true for adults. Childcare experts say that children should have a say in the matter of whether or not they should attend a funeral. Ask your child if he wants to go to the memorial service and make every effort to respect his choice. 
  • What Does “In Lieu of Flowers” Mean? - “In lieu of flowers” is often the phrase used in a service program, death announcement or obituary when the bereaved request that mourners memorialize the deceased in other ways besides sending flowers. This could mean a donation to a charity or even a gift of food for after the event.  
  • What’s the Difference Between a Memorial and a Funeral? – The main difference is the presence of the body. A memorial is when the body is not present at the gathering to celebrate the life of the deceased, and a funeral is when the body is present at the service. Generally, memorials happen after cremation service or other instances that would prevent the body from being present, like when the body is donated to science. 
  • What Do You Wear to a Funeral or Memorial? – This question has a tricky answer, as it really depends on the service. Some funerals and memorials are more traditional with guests wearing black clothing to honor the somber feel of the event. But other services are more modern and celebratory, making it OK for guests to wear color or more casual clothing. Use the location of the service as a clue to the type of clothing you should wear. A funeral at a church? Black, more formal attire is best. A memorial at a beach? Casual is most likely just fine.  

Schilling Funeral Home & Cremation is here to help if you want to learn more about these topics or Amboy, IL cremation services.   

 

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