Sending Support After the Funeral Home

By: Schilling Funeral Home & Cremation
Monday, July 19, 2021

Even though no one likes to see their friends, loved ones, or family in pain after a loss and service at a funeral home in Fulton, IL, it can be awful to see loved ones grieving when you’re far away from them, either in a different town or even in a different country. 

While it’s never preferable to be far away from someone when they’re grieving, it is possible to provide some comfort even though you’re apart. If you’re looking for ways to be there for someone in grief even from halfway around the world, these tips are here to help inspire you:  

  • Use Technology – We are so lucky to live in a modern world with almost endless ways of staying in touch with people despite physical distance. From Facebook and Instagram to video chatting, and even the classic telephone, use technology to reach out to the bereaved. Reach out when you can so they know you’re available, but don’t be pushy. Also, don’t feel like you have to talk or have meaningful words of encouragement. The best thing you can do for your friend is just to listen. 
  • Plan a Visit – You might not be able to see and help them in person right now, but you can certainly plan a visit. This is especially helpful since the grieving process doesn’t end once the service is over, so the bereaved might need extra love and support a few months down the line after other people have moved on.  
  • funeral home in Fulton, ILOrder Deliveries – Even a small gesture can mean a world of difference to someone in grief. And, thanks to modern delivery services, it’s never been easier to send those small gestures even from across an ocean. Place an order for grocery delivery so they don’t have to worry about shopping or order them some food from their favorite take out place. You can also send flowers, candy, gift baskets, thoughtful gifts like books, gift cards, and a whole host of other delivery items to show you care and are thinking about them in their time of loss.   
  • Don’t Ask – The last thing someone in grief wants to do is field a bunch of questions. So, instead of asking what you can do to help, just do it. Be proactive, whether that means sending over a cleaning service, flowers or food or paying for a grocery delivery.  
  • Donate – Cremations and funerals do cost money, and it might be very helpful for you to donate money to help the bereaved with some of the costs. You can also make a donation in the deceased’s memory. Choose a cause that was important to the deceased and let the bereaved know about your donation so they can feel something good has come from their loss.  

Do you want to learn more tips or information about Fulton, IL funeral homes? Schilling Funeral Home & Cremation is here to help. We can offer you more information beyond these tips for how to help your family member or friend when they’ve lost someone. Call or visit us today.

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